Relationship Counselling

Relationship Counselling

Could your relationship benefit from professional relationship counselling here on the Gold Coast? If you want a private, confidential counselling session with an experienced professional, call today for a no-obligation discussion about how counselling may be beneficial for you, your partner or family.

Why do we end up in conflict with the one we love?

How can something that started out so good end up so bad?

How did we end up in a power struggle?

Couple Looking Over Water

Relationship Counselling: What You Should Know

Relationship counselling is a specialised area and to be a good relationship counsellor requires training and years of experience in the field.

Why Do People Seek Relationship Counselling?

  1. Communication And Miscommunication – Sometimes couples and partners in relationship find the don't feel they can say what they really want to express, and often feel they just are not being listened to.
  2. Conflict Resolution – Differences in dealing with issues and disagreements when they arise can spiral into silence, shouting and behaviour that makes the situation worse rather than better. Genuine attempts to resolve issues sometimes sink couples into further conflict and fears for the future of their relationship.
  3. Lack Of Intimacy – What happened to that spark that used to be there. It doesn’t seem to be there any more so couples stop reaching out with tenderness and love.
  4. Sexual Issues – These come is various guises and forms. By Addressing intimacy and trust through relationship counselling, these sexual problems are often resolved and overcome leading to a deeper feeling of intimacy than either partner imagined to be possible.
  5. A Partner Having An Affair – This happens when one or other partner look for intimacy with someone else. Both partners are encouraged to engage in the process of healing deep wounds, restoring trust, and altering old patterns in the relationship prior to having the affair. It can be difficult, require courage and taking ricks, but it can be done.
  6. Personal Issues The Affect Both Partners – sometimes when one partner has problems like depression, addiction, grief, trauma, and other deep seated issues, it can affect both partners and affect the the relationship

Profesional Relationship Counselling with Jiselle Saraghi

Jiselle began her career as a relationship counsellor many years ago when she undertook specialised training at Relationships Australia. She subsequently worked in the field for many years both as a private practitioner and within organisations. Jiselle is very passionate and excited about this area of her work.

Throughout the years Jiselle has continued to immerse herself in training and professional development in the field of relational theory and therapy.

Being introduced to Imago Relationship Therapy became a game changer and added an exciting path to her career as a relationship counsellor.

Imago made such sense to me that I felt propelled to undergo the extensive training to become a Certified Imago Therapist” says Jiselle who is proud to be part of an international community that has touched the lives of over 100,000 people in over 30 countries.

Imago Therapy And Relationship Counselling

Imago Relationship Therapy was developed by Dr Harville Hendrix and Dr Helen Huntley. Harville Hendrix has a famous quote –

"Conflict in our relationships is our growth trying to happen"

Harville Hendrix

Viewed in this way the conflict or the inevitable power struggle that emerges within all relationships becomes something to be welcomed as another opportunity for our own personal development.

Certified Imago Therapist for Relationship Counselling Gold CoastImago therapy, suggests that we unconsciously hold an image of a perfect mate, which is based not only on personal qualities that we desire, but also on negative personality qualities in our parents that we experienced in childhood (our imago). This means that we unconsciously choose our partners in order to complete ‘unfinished childhood’ business.

Once this is brought into awareness Imago becomes a powerful vehicle to heal our childhood wounds. None of us are exempt from this wounding and knowing this we are reassured that the person we may currently be in conflict with is actually the perfect person to aid us in our own healing process.

What Happens In A Relationship Counselling Session?

You will be asked to sit facing each other as Jiselle is interested in the two of you communicating together. This is different to the more traditional sitting side by side facing the therapist that you may have experienced previously.

“I am on the sidelines as the coach, facilitating the process between the two of you” explains Jiselle.

From the first session, you will learn the main skill of Imago therapy: the dialogue. This skill alone has the potential to transform your relationship.

Be patient, trust the process and enjoy where it will take you. I feel blessed to be able to do this work and have witnessed the magic of Imago on countless occasions.

Working this way sits beautifully within the mindfulness framework explains Jiselle.

Mindfulness teaches us how to transform our lives by learning to live consciously in the ‘here and now’ while Imago transforms relationships in the same way, as it moves us with awareness from an unconsciousness state of being to one of consciousness, where healing and growth become possible.

If you want to learn more about Imago therapy, read the highly recommended book Harville Hendrix’s book “Getting the Love You Want”.

Imago Relationship Counselling & Therapy:

  • Provides a vehicle for positive change in your relationship
  • Will help you gain insight into what has happened to your relationship and the part each of you played
  • Helps you understand why you were attracted to each other
  • Will teach you skills and techniques to repair your relationship and deepen your connection to each other
  • Understands that relationship challenges are a pathway to healing and growth
  • Helps both partners heal from their childhood wounds
  • Encourages compassion and empathy for yourself and your partner
  • Creates a safe environment where it becomes possible to have ‘safe’ conversations
  • Rekindles romance and brings passion back into your lives
  • Assists you to consciously create the dream relationship you’ve always wanted
  • Has the potential to improve your relationships with family members and friends

Who Will Benefit With Imago Relationship Counselling?

  • Couples who want to reconnect and deepen their love
  • Couples who are in conflict and want to move out of the power struggle
  • Couples who want to learn more effective ways to communicate.
  • Couples who are thinking about separation and divorce, and want to explore what is the best path for them.
  • Anyone who wants to improve the quality of his or her relationship

All relationship counselling is equally suitable for same-sex or heterosexual couples.

Free Initial Gold Coast Counselling Consultation.